MASKS OFF
Therapist and Relationship Coach
Hi, I’m Jemma.
Welcome, I’m really glad you’re here.
About Me
Masks off. Real therapy.
In therapy school, we’re taught to be neutral.
Don’t reveal too much.
Don’t have opinions.
I don’t believe that’s how people heal.
Therapy is a relationship, often one of the most important and honest relationships in a person’s life. And it’s hard to show up week after week and do brave work with someone you don’t really know.
My private practice is a space where judgment, shame, and people-pleasing have no place. You don’t need to perform, explain yourself perfectly, or have it all figured out. You can arrive real, messy, contradictory and be met safely.
I live and practise a masks-off approach. I’ve shared my own story publicly because time and again clients tell me it gives them permission to be honest, vulnerable, and whole. I don’t ask my clients to do anything I’m unwilling to do myself.
I’m often the therapist people come to when they’re lying to everyone else including themselves. Together, we make sense of your thoughts, feelings, patterns, and defences so you can understand your world and change it from a place of clarity, not shame.
This is therapy, coaching, and real relational work and gently challenging when needed. No endless therapy speak.
Maybe you’re repeating the same patterns, feeling anxious, burnt out, or stuck in relationship dynamics that leave you unseen, unheard, or disconnected from yourself.
I work with clients across diverse genders, sexualities, and relationship styles, including monogamy, non-monogamy, affairs, kink, openess, and everything in between. Whoever you are and however you love, this is a space where you don’t have to edit yourself.
I also understand what it’s like to tick every conventional box, career, home, parenting, partnership, yet still feel strangely absent from your own life.
If you’re ready to start relational therapy and coaching I’d love to work with you.
You’re safe to start here. Let’s begin
Fully confidential and discreet invoices and contracts
How I Can Support You
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Individual Therapy
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Partnered Therapy
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Gender, Sex, Relationship Diversity
How We Can Work Together
I specialise in a wide range of client support and if your needs don’t fit neatly into a category, that’s okay. Therapy is tailored to you, integrating different approaches to support your journey.
Areas of focus include:
Self-Discovery & Authentic Living
Attachment and Trauma Informed
Anxiety, Burnout & Workplace Stress
Neurodivergence and how this plays out in real life
Perimenopause and Hormones
Ethical Non-Monogamy & Relationship Diversity
LGBTQIA+ Identity & Exploration
Kink-Informed Therapy
Communication & Relationship Challenges
If you’re navigating something else or have multiple areas to explore,
we’ll create a space that fits your needs.
I became a coach and therapist because I’ve been there - needing support, not even realising how much until I finally got it.
The right help changes everything. That’s why I retrained, why this isn’t just a job - it’s my purpose. I couldn’t find any one person to unpick my chaos, so I became her for others.
Giving back what I once needed. Therapy isn’t about fixing you (because you were never broken). It’s about giving you the space to be seen, heard, and supported in a way that actually makes a difference. You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
Jemma